DEAR SIR, PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE.
I am 17 years old, I have one young child, and my marriage is still very new.
Perhaps I can briefly explain so you can ADVISE me or direct me to your page where I can get advice and heal.
I found a man who loved me very much, and during our courtship, he told me the truth that he had been married before, but his wife was not fortunate enough to have children during their 2 years together, and they separated because the woman could not bear him a child, so his parents advised him to leave her as she was just eating for free.
He persuaded me and seemed to have good love for me, he cared for me and provided for me in every way.
One day he told me to go to his place so we could plan how to go to his family to introduce ourselves and for the wedding plans to be done very soon.
That day we stayed until night, and I slept there, and that was the first day I had sex with him. Now I got pregnant by him, he was very happy and promised to take care of me and respect me as his WIFE.
What hurt me so much that I came to you for advice is that the woman he separated from has children, and they are not separated.
It turns out he lied to me that his wife has children and they are continuing with life as usual, his wife is in their village, and he is in the city looking for a living. It has hurt me so much that I even wanted to abort his pregnancy.
I thank God I gave birth safely, and the child is now four months old, but until now, my conscience is telling me to leave him, even though he still loves me. I ask for your advice, thank you.
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